Separating "Wishes" from "Truth" - 

There is such a freedom in separating what you want something to be...what someone tells you it is...from the reality of what 'really' is...I have been a 'believer' my whole life...you tell me something and I will take the words coming from your mouth and believe in you...maybe that is why one of the mottos of my life is "Give me Something to Believe In"....80's rock band title as well I think...just went through and came out the other side of doing this again...what I have learned is I will always believe you...but I am quicker on the uptake when too many facts prove otherwise...now it becomes yours and NOT mine...my other new worn, tried and true thought is "Life Is SHORT"...live it...RISK...let go...take chances...

There is no one walking this planet who isn't carrying some baggage they just want to put down...can't put down...harbor...feel for...suffer from...so I try and help...does that make me Co-dependent or some other therapy label?  No, it just makes me, me...ok...maybe peppered with co-dependency...I want love...I need love...I want TO love...so no matter what someone presents to me as their outside I will always see there inside..."Do unto others".....

So thank you again to the 'takers', the 'liars', the 'no it is all you not me folks', you have to's, no i didn't say that, i meant this you should read my minders, the knee breakers, the engine blowers, those with fiance's they can't leave....to the parent who stole last dollars and didn't talk to me for a year, to the "I will help you" but left...thank you.  My wish is that your path is where you are to be...and if it isn't that you change it...because

Life is Short....